10 Years of Marriage #Blogtober Day 3

10 year married

Next week we will celebrate 10 years of marriage.  A ten years that has seen us move house, change jobs, get pets, have four children, spend a small fortune on updating our lovely wreck of a house and so much more.  Our lives our unrecognizable from the ones we had before we got all dressed up and said I do….  I could spend time gushing about how he is a great dad and husband and makes me laugh everyday.  These things are all true; in the most difficult times after the twins were born and no one had slept, through our daughter’s NICU stay and subsequent operations he was absolutely the glue that kept me together as I became increasingly unstuck.  So, I could write a whole post about all those things, but instead I thought I would share the 9 most stupid things we have disagreed or squabbled about in the past ten years.

  1. Who is the most tired – this is a recurring argument and in case you are wondering IT IS ME!!!
  2. Why I have lost the car keys – again!
  3. Why he can’t remember anything – ever!
  4. Whose turn it is to get up with the baby
  5. Whose turn it is to make coffee
  6. Whether he cheated in our weekly running race
  7. Whose turn it is to go to the shop – it is his turn…. ALWAYS!!
  8. Why I never put things back in their place – because there are four kids hanging out of me screaming ‘MUMMY’
  9. Why he can’t fold the washing – you would have to ask him…

There have, I am sure been many others and of course over the years we have had some proper rows too, but (and this is what I think matters) we never disagree about the fundamentals of life.  We agree on how we want to live, how we want our children to be raised, how we divide up the labour and that we want to do all of this together.  So although there are ups and downs it is a ride that I wouldn’t want to be on with anyone else.

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43 thoughts on “10 Years of Marriage #Blogtober Day 3

  1. hAPPY 10 YEAR ANNIVERSARY #bLOGTOBER18
    1. Thank you #blogtober18
  2. Congrats on ten years of marriage love the car keys happens all the time in our home haha! Thanks for hosting #dreamteam Nige recently posted...Home Management And Finding The Right TradesPerson With Hoppy #ADMy Profile
    1. Thanks for joining in with the #DreamTeam
  3. Happy 10th Anniversary! That list is almost exactly like mine! Good job that we love em! #DreamTeam
    1. It is... I always remind him that the things I found quirky to start with might become very annoying after another ten years - lol! Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam
  4. a funny and silly post, but also really quite romantic. It made a little tear well up in my left (sentimental) eye! happy wedding anniversary! #dreamteam MARTINA recently posted...The Magic of Baking with Kids from Craft & CrumbMy Profile
    1. That's me an old romantic... Thanks for popping by the #DreamTeam
  5. Congratulations! Happy 10th! :) #DreamTeam This Scribbler Mum recently posted...AutumnMy Profile
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  6. Happy Anniversary! "Whose turn is it to get up with the baby?" was always a big one at our house too! :) Laurie recently posted...Especially Toward Those Who May Try Your PatienceMy Profile
    1. Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam Laurie
  7. so cute that you do a weekly running race. And I think very healthy to have the odd squabble, better than drowning in resentment.
    1. Totally agree
  8. Happy 10 years of marriage you have been on such a journey. HERE is to many MORE glorious years of marriage X #dreamteam
    1. AWh thanks and ever thank you for being on the #DreamTeam
  9. Who is the most tired ARGUMENT.. We've all been THERE!! OURS TOOK a more competitive edge when we both got a fitbit. We now backup our sleep deprivation with graphs and percentages. A great read, happy ANNIVERSARY! #DreamTeam
    1. Ha ha! I love that. I am off to start my graph for today. Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam
  10. Well after ten years it sounds like you are doing pretty good all round! Plus I totally agree with no. 1 - being the most tired. I always say the same thing in my house. Mum's prerogative i think! #dreamteam Tracey Carr recently posted...Frozen Fever – Please Make It Stop Singing!!My Profile
    1. Mums are always the most tired. Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam
  11. happy ANNIVERSARY guys! <3
  12. Tick,tick and tick. We've bickered about all of the above in our 16 years of marriage. i love milestone posts like this - especially the ones that keep it real. it's not all rainbows and you have to work at it, but when you get it right, it's the best! #DreamTeam
    1. Defo not all rainbows, but as long as there are still some its all good for me. Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam
  13. Congratulations! The can’t remember one sounds familiar... :-) #dreamtEam
    1. Thanks and thank you for being on the #DreamTeam
  14. Congratulations on reaching the big 1-0! Dynamic Dad recently posted...Make A Monster Kids Craft ActivityMy Profile
    1. thanks for joining us on the #DreamTeam
  15. Look at you in your dress! Gorgeous photo and congratulations on 10 years! I'm pretty sure we have bickered over the same things. Except the running race.... the only time I ever run is for the bus these days haha! Thanks for being a brilliant #dreamteam host xx Annette, 3 Little Buttons recently posted...Easy cheesy Halloween spidersMy Profile
    1. Thanks and thanks for letting me join the #DreamTeam
  16. Happy 10th anniversary #dreamteam
    1. Thanks for being on the #DreamTeam
  17. Congratulations love the list number teo would be near the top of mine #dreamteam
    1. Thanks for being with us on the #DreamTeam
  18. Congrats on 10 years! The fundamentals are the most important, the little tiffs are easily forgotten! #DreamTeam
  19. Happy anniVersary!! My husband and i bicker about similar to you! Sounds like you have a great marriage tHough xx #dreamteam
    1. Thanks in the most part we do. Thanks for being on the #dreamTeam
  20. Happy 10th anniversary kirsty. that's a great milestone. also love the concept of focusing on the silly disagreements. brilliant!!! Ross - The stented papa recently posted...Summer Painting ProjectMy Profile
    1. Thanks Ross. #DreamTeam
  21. If there's one thing I know AFTER 3 children & 8 years of marriage it's that Competitive tiredness is unavoidable! #DreamTeam Crummy Mummy recently posted...Why I’ve decided to give up breastfeedingMy Profile
    1. Competitive tiredness made me giggle #DreamTeam
  22. You take turns to get up with baby??? It is ALWAYS my turn, grumpy now... ##dreamteam
    1. Not during the night.... He is great with the kids, but has not done one night shift on his own ever in 8 years!! We did used to take it in turns to lie in on a Saturday though. Thanks for being with the #DreamTeam this week

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